04.01.20

Is Adoption Easy?

Is Adoption Easy? Adoption is not easy Megan and Mike shared, “We’ve been together for twelve years and have been trying to start a family for five years. Countless consultations, many failed IVFs and a miscarriage. We’re about to give up hope but thought we could explore adoption first” It’s not easy shifting your focus [...]
03.21.20

Keeping Calm During the Covid 19 Crisis

We hope you are all staying safe and healthy! We wanted to reach out given the challenges we are all facing to keep ourselves and our families safe. It is difficult to stay self-quarantined for days on end, especially with kids! Parents are left without clear guidance as to the best way to structure their [...]
03.16.20

Why You’re Not “Giving Up A Child” For Adoption

Why You’re Not “Giving Up A Child” For Adoption “I’m pregnant?!  Is this home test correct?  Why is this happening now?  I have two little ones already, how am I going to afford another one?  I am barely working 20 hours a week.  We are struggling now financially as well.  Just went to the prenatal [...]
01.28.20

“Adoption Is Not The Same As Having Your Own Child”

People who’ve never adopted have never felt the overwhelming intensity of first meeting their child. It’s hard to explain the giddy anticipation mixed with unnamed anxiety. This combination of emotions helps etch even the tiniest details into your memory forever– the colors, the smells, the words, the emotions. For me, this moment is one of [...]
01.28.20

A New Adoption Paradigm

For more than a two decades Richard has been thinking about the paradigms that govern how people think about and practice adoption. Along with Jane Turner, ACI’s executive director, Richard has been developing a new paradigm for understanding adoption that moves the practice of adoption beyond “openness.” In this article Richard looks at the history [...]